Thursday, February 5, 2009

So tired today... geez!

All I wanna do right now?? Sleep!

Thursday, January 29, 2009

Tragic Love Story

Let Me Love You

Once upon a time, there was once a guy who was very much in love with this girl. This romantic guy folded 1,000 pieces of papercranes as a gift to his girl. Although, at that time he was just a small executive in his company, his future doesn't seemed too bright, they were very happy together. Until one day, his girl told him she was going to Paris and will never come back. She also told him that she cannot visualise any future for the both of them, so let's go their own ways there and then... heartbroken, the guy agreed.

When he regained his confidence, he worked hard day and night, slogging his body and mind just to make something out of himself. Finally with all these hardwork and with the help of friends, this guy had set up his own company...

"You never fail until you stop trying." he always told himself. "I must make it in life!"
One rainy day, while this guy was driving, he saw an elderly couple sharing an umbrella in the rain walking to some destination. Even with the umbrella, they were still drenched. It didn't take him long to realise those were his ex-girlfriend's parents. With a heart in getting back at them, he drove slowly beside the couple, wanting them to spot him in his luxury sedan. He wanted them to know that he wasn't the same anymore, he had his own company, car, condo, etc. He had made it in life!

Before the guy can realise, the couple was walking towards a cemetary,and he got out of his car and followed them...and he saw his ex-girlfriend, a photograph of her smiling sweetly as ever at him from her tombstone... and he saw his precious papercranes in a bottle placed beside her tomb. Her parents saw him. He walked over and asked them why this had happened. They explained, she did not leave for France at all. She was stricken ill with cancer. In her heart, she had believed that he will make it someday, but she did not want her illness to be his obstacle ... therefore she had chosen to leave him.

She had wanted her parents to put his papercranes beside her, because, if the day comes when fate brings him to her again he can take some of those back with him. The guy just wept ...the worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them but knowing you can't have them and will never see them again.
The End."

A tragic story that perhaps happens only in the movies. At the end of the day, money is money is money but love is divine. In our quest for our material wealth, take time to make time for our loved ones. There will be a time when we have only memories to cling to.
Take this weekend to show our "love" to all that are close to us.

FOR_YOU_CRD

Intro: C#m7-C#m9-A-Bm9-B7sus-E---- (Do intro by plucking except E)

I
B¢ª F#m Bm9
For you I give a lifetime of stability
E
Anything you want of me
A9/F#
Oh! Nothing is impossible
B¢ª F#m Bm9
For you there are no words, no ways to show my love
E
Or all the thoughts I'm thinking of

Refrain I
C#m7 A
'Coz this life is no good alone
G#m7 G#7 C#m7
Since we become one I made a change
A Bm9 A9/F#
Everything I do now makes sense
B7sus Bm9 E---
All roads end, all I do is for you

II
B¢ª F#m Bm9
For you I share a cup of love that overflows
E
And anyone who knows this knows
A9/F#
I would change the faults I have
B¢ª F#m Bm9
For you there is no low or high or in-between
E
Of my heart you haven't seen

Refrain II
C#m7 A
'Coz I share all I have in end
G#m7 G#7 C#m7
Nothing is said hard to understand
A Bm9 A9/F#
And I feel, I feel deeper still

B7sus Bm7 E---
And always will, all this love is for you

Bridge
F#m7
Every note that I play
G#m7 G#7
Every word I might say
C#m9 C#m7
Every melody I feel
A Bm9
Are only for you when you feel
F#m7
Every page that I write
G#m7 G#7
Everyday of my life
C#m9 C#m7
Would not be filled without a thing
A Bm9
That my love for you now brings

III
F#m Bm9
For you I make a promise of fidelity
E
Now and for eternity
A9/F#
No one could replace this vow
B¢ª F#m Bm9
For You I take your hand and heart and everything
E
And after that a wedding ring

Refrain III
C#m7 A
'Coz this life is no good alone
G#m7 G#7 C#m7
Since we become one you're all I know
A Bm9 A9/F#
If this feeling should leave I die
B7sus B E---
And here is why , all I am is for you
C#m7 Bm7 A
Everything I do now make sense
B7sus
All roads end, all I do is for you
Outro: E-A9-(2x) Bm9-E ( Do outro by plucking)




Legend tells us that:
¢ª - quick change of chords (E.g. B¢ª F#m)
Subject: Buhay Call Center... yeah! c:

1. dahil halos di na kayo nagkikita ng nanay at tatay mo, ang tawag na nila sayo ay "boarder" at sinisingil ka na nila sa upa mo.
2. pag sasagot ka ng telepono, lagi na lang may opening spiel...example:*toot* .... thank you for calling (the company) this is (your name) how may i help you?
3. eksperto ka na sa power nap, yung mga 15mins break nyo, itinutulog mo na lang para fresh pagkacalls uli, mya na yung 1 hour nap.
4. di mo na alam bumiyahe pag may araw, nalilito ka bakit andaming tao,at bakit di na dumadaan ang dyip dun sa mga kalsada na 1 way.
5. marami ka nang naiipong jacket... nakakahiya naman kung pare-pareho jacket mo araw-araw at super ginaw naman pag wala.
6. sanay kang maglakad-lakad ng nakamedyas.
7. ang tawag mo sa mga friends mo...dude, bro, coach,tl, sup.
8. di na dugo ang dumadaloy sayo... kape!
9. finefake mo na wag maging "slang" pag nagbabayad ka sa tindahan o kaya sa jeep para wag akalain na pasosyal ka... masama pa, mas panget pakinggan.
10. tadaaaaa! nagsasalita ka sa pagtulog mo, pati calls mo napapanaginipan mo.
11. pumuputi ka na dahil di ka na naaarawan.
12. sanay ka nang matulog kahit maingay sa loob at labas ng bahay nyo.
13. kinalimutan ka na ng mga kaibigan mo dahil existing ka lang pag tulog na sila.
14. sanay ka na sa mga prank callers at mga death treats na nakasulat lang... *sa dami ba naman ng ma-encounter mong ganito gabi-gabi sa trabaho eh**
15. di ka na sanay sa traffic. papasok at pauwi sa trabaho walang traffic.
16. di na tama ang oras ng pagkain mo. breakfast mo ay hapunan na. lunch mo sa madaling araw. dinner mo pag uwi mo sa umaga.
17. lahat ng kasabay mo sa jeep pag papasok ka, pagod na. ikaw lang ang bagong ligo at bagong gel.
18. maski sa bahay, mabilis kang kumain.
19. hindi ka na kilala ng aso nyo
20. ayaw mo na mag-jeep. kailangan taxi or kaya aircon na bus.
21. wala ka nang alam na balita.
22. nahihiya kang magpunta sa mga reunion lalo na't alam mong successful lahat ng ka-batch mo.
23. sasabihin mo field ng trabaho mo IT, di call center.
24. nasusuka ka na pag nakita mo ang pc sa bahay nyo..
25. sasabihin mong tech support engineer ka, pero rep ka lang..
26. pag payday... olats lahat sweldo ng mga kaklase mong board passer. (8k per month lang sila) isang kinsenas mo na yun..:P
27. pag day off mo na lang ikaw nakakapaanood ng noon time show!
28. hindi mo na kilala ang mga bagong artista.
29. hindi mo na alam itsura ng mall...
30. di ka na maebs sa bahay, sanay ka na sa cr ng 6th floor or ibang floor.
31. madalas kulang gamit mo sa bahay dahil nasa locker
32. ayaw mo nang pumasok sa internet cafe!
33. alam mo kung sino si Avaya
34. sanay ka nang pumasok ng bagong gising... kakabangon lang galing sleeping lounge.
35. maglo-lock ka ng pc kahit sa bahay na. pag pindot mo ng CTRL + ALT+ DEL iba ang lalabas.
36. sanay ka ng kumain sa harap ng pc mo kahit nsa bahay.
37. papasok ka sa ofc na nka-jeans, tshirt and cap astig!)
38. mas malaki sweldo mo sa mga ka-batch mo, nagkakanda-kuba na sila sa trabaho nila
39. puro ka-age mo mga ka-opisina mo, walang old maids and DOMs!!
40. mabilis ka ng mag pabili ng corn bits at chicharon sa ermats mo...
41. nakapanood ka na ng rally sa Ayala
42. pag nakakarinig ka ng Kaching!!! akala mo may mail ka na dumating. hehe
43. nakita mo na lahat ng klase ng vendo machine
44. dito sa opisina mo nararanasan na napakabagal ng oras!
45. lahat na ng rason para umabsent nagawa mo na
46. sanay ka na makarinig ng napakalakas na pag singa ng sipon.
47. marami ka ng naipon na microwavable container
48. marami kang ketchup packs galing mcdo at jollibee
49. pag nagkukwento ka sa mga barkada jargon lahat. di nila maintindihan ang ibig sabihin ng ticket..
50. hindi ka na sanay umakyat ng hagdan
51. pag gumagamit ka ng cr,, di ka na nagpa-flush.. kc akala mo kusa na lulubog ebs mo.
52. sawa ka na internet kasi sa trabaho panay ang browsing..
53. during office hours, hindi ka lalabas ng building ng walang dalang relo. baka ma-over break.
54. akala mo may sarili kang locker sa bahay nyo.
55. marunong ka na makipagsagutan at makipagbarahan ng english
56. sanay ka ng magyosi o umidlip pag alas dos at alas kwatro ng umaga
57. dito ka na makakakita ng gf, bf, or asawa. wala ka ng time maghanap sa labas.
58. pag may problema ka sa pc mo, una mong ginagawa ay clear cache at cookies.
59. nanghihingi ka pa ng baon sa nanay mo kahit mas malaki sweldo mo sa kanya..
60. nang ho-hoard ka na din ng tissue sa bahay
61. kala mo libre ang kape sa select...
62. libre parking mo sa building, klasmeyts mo nagbabayad araw-araw ng parking.
63. pag nag cr ka...sanay ka na sa gripo na automatic at toilet bowl...
64. nakaipon ka na ng mouse ball sa bahay
65. nagulat ka ng masabi mo ang opening spiel mo habang nagbabayad sa jeep
66. naka id ka pa kahit nasa jeep
67. kaya mong tiisin na hindi palitan ang damit mo ng 16 hours
68. pagtinanong ng mga ka tropa mo kung ano ang sinusupport mo... sabihin mo msn.com (hahahaha!) kasi pag sinabi mong passport, hindi nila alam yun.
69. mas sanay ka na mag Ctrl+C & Ctrl+V at nahihiya ka na ngayon mo lang nalaman yun.
70. madalas mo harangin ang mga calls
71. Nasanay ka nang may katabing TL na hindi umuuwi. pagpasok mo nandun na. pag-uwi mo nandun pa rin.
72. kahit may malaki kayong speaker sa bahay gusto mo pa din naka-earphones!
73. gusto mo nang lumipat sa makati
74. nung pinasok ng akyat bahay ang bahay nyo, nagsisigaw ka ng HACKER!!! HACKER!!!
75. minumura mo pag nakatalikod kahit sinong amerikano na makita mo. *yan ung kausap ko kanina!!!**
76. pag tinatamad ka tumanggap ng tawag, matapang ka na at alam mo na ang gagawin:
77. puro kalyo na ang wrist at daliri mo
78. sanay ka nang makipag-usap sa telepono sa bahay kahit malakas ang TV. sa office parang limang TV ang nakatapat sayo habang may kausap.
79. pumasok ka na ng puyat, lasing at gutom
80. may picture ka ng nakasuot ng headset
81. sanay ka nang matulog ng dilat ang mata. hindi pwede pahuli.
82. lahat ng style ng pagtulog maiisip mo.
83. lahat ng kaibigan mo may christmas vacation ikaw wala
84. mas gusto mo na mag warm transfer sa ibang department para makatulog ka habang naka-mute at nakikinig sa usapan nila
85. yung ex mo may kasama ng iba
86. lahat ng holiday pumapasok ka kasi double pay malaki ang bayad.
87. d2 ka na sa opisina nakakabili lahat ng gamit mo: kwintas, sabon, shampoo, tocino, longganisa, hikaw, magazine, aso, libro, tshirt, prepaid card, eload, dvd, vcd, yema, corn bits...
88. d2 ka na nasanay kumain ng pagkain na luto sa microwave
89. palaging matabang ang kape sa office
90. imposibleng hindi ka pa nakatanggap ng memo
91. gusto mo na din bumili ng water dispenser kasi pitsel lang ang nasa bahay nyo.
92. nakakausap ka na ng pilipino sa ibang bansa
93. dami mo na naiipon na stirrer (red) galing starbucks kakabili ng kape.
94. nasanay ka nang mgpadeliver ng pagkain.
95. nakakita ka ng artista na nagbebenta ng pagkain sa pantry.
96. dito ka lang makakakita ng pinagsama-samang tinda na: medyas, vitamins, christmas lights, cologne. yosi, siomai at lahat ng klase ng pagkain, relos, kalendaryo, stuff toys, make up, kikay kit, deodorant, kwintas, sasakyan, camera, video, audio, foot spa , milk spa, bags wallet, sinturon, mamon, hamon...
97. d2 ka na expose sa tapa king, zuppa, yellow cab, jugnos, bermuda hotel's pancit canton, wendy's. north park, starbucks
98. di mo maenjoy christmas party kasi kaylangan mo bumalik sa office dahil may pasok ka pa.
99. ice tea ka lang, mga kasama mo.. beer!!!
100. may bago kang damit kada sweldo dahil takot ka makarinig nanaman na paulit-ulit ang suot mo.
101. Lahat ng kaibigan mo kinakahiya at minamaliit nila ang ginagawa mo... Pero pag dating sa araw ng sweldo nagpapalibre sayo.
Closing Cycles
by Paulo Coelho

One always has to know when a stage comes to an end. If we insist on staying longer than the necessary time, we lose the happiness and the meaning of the other stages we have to go through. Closing cycles, shutting doors, ending chapters whatever name we give it, what matters is to leave in the past the moments of life that have finished. Did you lose your job? Has a loving relationship come to an end? Did you leave your parents' house? Gone to live abroad? Has a long-lasting friendship ended all of a sudden?

You can spend a long time wondering why this has happened. You can tell yourself you won't take another step until you find out why certain things that were so important and so solid in your life have turned into dust, just like that. But such an attitude will be awfully stressing for everyone involved: your parents, your husband or wife, your friends, your children, your sister, everyone will be finishing chapters, turning over new leaves, getting on with life, and they will all feel bad seeing you at a standstill.

None of us can be in the present and the past at the same time, not even when we try to understand the things that happen to us. What has passed will not return: we cannot for ever be children, late adolescents, sons that feel guilt or rancor towards our parents, lovers who day and night relive an affair with someone who has gone away and has not the least intention of coming back.

Things pass, and the best we can do is to let them really go away. That is why it is so important (however painful it maybe!) to destroy souvenirs, move, give lots of things away to orphanages, sell or donate the books you have at home. Everything in this visible world is a manifestation of the invisible world, of what is going on in our hearts and getting rid of certain memories also means making some room
for other memories to take their place.

Let things go. Release them. Detach yourself from them. Nobody plays this life with marked cards, so sometimes we win and sometimes we lose. Do not expect anything in return, do not expect your efforts to be appreciated, your genius to be discovered, your love to be understood. Stop turning on your emotional television to watch the same program over and over again, the one that shows how much you suffered from a certain loss: that is only poisoning you, nothing else. Nothing is more dangerous than not accepting love, relationships that are broken off, work that is promised but there is no starting date, decisions that are always put off waiting for the ideal moment. Before a new chapter is begun, the old one has to be finished: tell yourself that what has passed will never come back.

Remember that there was a time when you could live without that thing or that person. Nothing is irreplaceable. A habit is not a need. This may sound so obvious, it may even be difficult, but it is very important.

Closing cycles. Not because of pride, incapacity or arrogance, but simply because that no longer fits your life. Shut the door, change the record, clean the house, shake off the dust. Stop being who you were, and change into who you are.

Heto title: Parang Kayo, Pero Hindi.


She is a 24-year old copywriter. He is an architect.
They met and became lovers in college. They broke up last year but
remained to be "friends."

They send sweet text messages and he calls her often to make sure
she's okay. They still date. They still have sex.

They don't see anyone else. It is obvious that they still love each
other but when asked about their situation, she doesn't
know the real score. Even her friends are in the dark. "Parang sila, pero hindi."

She works in a telecom. He is reviewing for the board. They are in
the same barkada. They talk on the phone till 4 am. He gives
her chocolates, flowers and CDs even when there is no occasion. Their
friends are suspecting something. Bakit sila nagsosolo kapag may
overnight inuman? Why does he hold her close on the dance floor? Bakit sila magkaholding hands lagi?

Sila kaya?


"He hasn't admitted anything," she rants. "But I let him hug and kiss me.

Parang kami, pero hindi."

They work together in an ad agency. After office, they would watch
movie, have dinner and stroll at Glorietta. She gave him Harry Potter books for his birthday in exchange for posing as her boyfriend to make an ex jealous. They made out during the company outing in Subic and
never talked about it. He said "I love you" once but she wasn't sure if she heard him correctly because they were both drunk then. But one thing she is sure of is her feelings for him. She likes him. And she's
assuming that with what he's doing to her and with her, he likes her, too. There's just one hitch: he has a girlfriend!

She is a 28-year-old virgin. He's a 35-year-old bachelor. both mountaineers, they became close during their climbs. After a few dates in posh restaurants, he brings her to his condo where they would make out.

They have been doing this for months. She wants to believe
that "sila na" but then she's not really sure about it. "We don't talk about it but it doesn't really matter," she'd tell her friends. "What's
important is I am enjoying this -- whatever it is."

The "parang kayo, pero hindi" stage. Others call it MU or mutual
understanding. Pseudo-relationships. Pseudo- boyfriends.

Flings. Almost like a relationship, but not quite. It is a phase
where the persons involved are more than friends, but not
quite lovers.

Puwedeng may verbal agreement, puwedeng wala. One or both of
you may have admitted your feelings, possible ding hindi. You just let your gestures do the talking for you. Walang pormal na ligawan na nangyari. Hindi kayo mag-dyowa.

Pero sa kilos niyo, sa mga sinasabi niyo, parang kayo, pero hindi.

This kind of "relationship" can happen at different stages for
different reasons. It can happen after a break-up. You still
love each other, and you want to be with each other but you broke up for a reason. A nd for reasons that you alone know, ayaw niyo na muna magkabalikan.


It can also happen before a relationship, iyong pareho kayong
nakikiramdam. Possible din na ayaw niyo munang mag-seryoso
kaya kunwa-kunwarian lang muna.

Testing lang.

Puwede ring hindi puwedeng maging kayo kasi isa sa inyo --usually
the guy --may ka-relasyon na. Kaya habang hindi pa siya
nakikipag-break doon sa girl (sabi niya makikipag-break siya soon pero di naman niya ginagawa), wala muna kayong relasyon para nga naman hindi siya nangagaliwa kasi "hindi naman kayo."

This pseudo-relationship stage, for a time, can be fun. Lalo na kung
naghahanap ka lang naman ng "kalaro."


Pero huwag ka lang mag-e-expect na may patutunguhan kayo kasi wala talagang kasiguraduhan.


So bakit ang daming nagse-settle sa ganitong set up ganoong hindi

naman sigurado kung may patutunguhan?

Iba't ibang dahilan. Puwedeng for fun lang.

Puwedeng "buti na iyan kesa w ala" or puwede na iyang "pantawid-gutom."

Meaning, habang wala pa iyong the real thing, doon muna sa
kunwa-kunwarian.

For those who are not in a serious relationship, they would think
that pseudo-relationship is better than no relationship
at all. It would be fun, if all you are after for is that "kilig" feeling.

Aminado naman ako na once upon a time, may mga pseudo-relationships din ako. No commitments involved. For the simplest reason that they couldn't commit, because they were either committed to someone else, or that they weren't ready to commit.

My rationalization, "okay na iyun, kesa wala."

Ang habol ko lang naman, iyong kilig feeling. Iyong merong nagtatanong kung
kumusta araw ko. Iyong merong ka-cuddle sa beach outing. Iyong kapag tumunog ang cellphone, mapapangiti na ako dahil alam
kong galing sa kanya ang message. Iyong merong laging kasama. Habang wala pa ang the real thing, puwede na itong pagtiyagaan.

But then I learned that although it was only a pseudo-relationship, the
emotions were real. And usually, in this kind of set up, ang babae
lagi ang lugi.

Una, you can't ask him to commit. Since it's not really a relationship, you can't demand commitment from your partner. Ano ba kayo? May K ka nga ba magpasundo ng hatinggabi? You will always be uncertain about your role in his life. You can't expect him to be always there with you. And if you feel jealous of the other girls, you just have to keep it to yourself.

Ano ka ba niya para magselos?

Pangalawa, what if you fall deeply in love with him?
You can't be sure if he feels the same way.
Baka nag-a-assume ka lang na mahal ka rin niya.

Even if you are dying to tell him you love him, you can't.

Because you're not sure if he'll like it. Baka mapahiya ka lang.

This stage will always make you wonder where you are in the relationship.

Or if there is a relationship at all.

Pangatlo, what if you become attached too much?

What if you have invested all your emotions and this man hasn't?

What if you remain faithful to him, not entertaining other guys,
only to find out that he is seeing other girls?

Isa pang downside ng pseudo-relationships, it is fleeting. When a
disagreement sets in, or when one of you gets cold, then that would
be the end of it. Unlike in a serious relationship, hindi mo
alam kung saan ka lulugar sa isang pseudo-relationship. Wala kang
pinanghahawakan.

Kasi sa pseudo-relationship, there is no "us." Meron lang "you and me," hindi "us."

Buti sana kung pseudo-pain din lang ang mararanasan mo. Kaso, hindi
eh. Real pain. And usually, kahit tapos na ang pseudo- relationship, hindi mo maiwasan umasang one day, may karugtong pa rin iyun. And
you will be miserable, hoping to bring back what you used to have, only to find out eventually that the guy is in another pseudo-relationship with somebody else.

Ang h irap, ano? You agreed to this kind of set up for fun and then
you'd end up hurting yourself in the process.

Pero puwede naman maiwasan ang pain eh.
Puwede naman na hindi mo muna isipin ang future and just enjoy the feeling, without thinking of the consequences.

But if you are certain that you are going to hurt yourself in the
process, kailangan mo mamili. You can be happy and live
the moment without worrying what would happen next. Or you can stop settling with pseudo-relationships and wait for the real thing.

When I was younger and in a pseudo-relationship with an unavailable
guy, a friend told me, "Sige, kung ayaw mong magpapigil, bahala ka.

Magpakasaya ka.

Pero huwag kang iiyak-iyak pagkatapos, dahil tatadyakan kita."

Ang bottom line lang naman, kung magpapasaya sa iyo, gawin mo.

Ihanda mo lang ang sarili mo sa consequence. Dahil ang "parang kayo pero hindi" stage ay bihirang nagiging totoo. Usually, hanggang
doon lang siya ...

almost, but not quite.

This is without a doubt one of the nicest good luck forwards I have
received.

Hope it works for you - and me

Lotus Totus:




You have 6 minutes

There's some mighty fine advice in these words,
even if you're not superstitious. This Lotus Totus has been sent to
you for good luck.It has been sent around the world ten times so far.




Do not keep this message.




The Lotus Totus must leave your hands in 6
MINUTES. Otherwise you will get a very unpleasant surprise. This is true, even if you are not superstitious, agnostic, or otherwise faith impaired.




ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it
cheerfully.




TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As
you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any
other.




THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you
have or sleep all you want.




FOUR. When you say, "I love you," mean it.




FIVE. When you say, "I'm sorry," look the person
in the eye.




SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you
get married.




SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight.




EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People
who don't have dreams don't have much.




NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might
get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.




TEN.. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name
calling.




ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives.




TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.




THIRTEEN. When someone asks you a question
you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?"




FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great
achievements involve great risk.




FIFTEEN. Say "bless you" when you hear
someone sneeze.




SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson




SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect
for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.




EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great
friendship.




NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a
mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.




TWENTY.Smile when picking up the phone. The
caller will hear it in your voice.




TWENTY-ONE. Spend some time alone.








Now, here's the FUN part!




Send this to at least 5 people and your life will
improve.




1-4 people: Your life will improve slightly.




5-9 people: Your life will improve to your liking.




9-14 people: You will have at least 5 surprises in
the next 3 weeks




15 and above: Your life will improve drastically and
everything you
ever

dreamed of will begin to take shape.




A true friend is someone who reaches for your
hand and touches your
heart.

CHRISTIAN WAYS TO REDUCE STRESS

An Angel says, "Never borrow from the future. If you worry about what may happen tomorrow and it doesn't happen, you have worried in vain. Even if it does happen, you have to worry twice."

1. Pray

2. Go to bed on time.

3. Get up on time so you can start the day unrushed.

4. Say No to projects that won't fit into your time schedule, or that will compromise your mental health.

5. Delegate tasks to capable others.

6. Simplify and unclutter your life.

7. Less is more. (Although one is often not enough, two are often too many.)

8. Allow extra time to do things and to get to places.

9. Pace yourself. Spread out big changes and difficult projects over time; don't lump the hard things all together.

10. Take one day at a time.

11. Separate worries from concerns . If a situation is a concern, find out what God would have you do and let go of the anxiety. If you can't do anything about a situation, forget it .

12. Live within your budget; don't use credit cards for ordinary purchases.

13. Have backups; an extra car key in your wallet, an extra house key buried in the garden, extra stamps, etc.

14. K.M.S. (Keep Mouth Shut). This single piece of advice can prevent an enormous amount of trouble.

15. Do something for the Kid in You everyday.

16. Carry a Bible with you to read while waiting in line.

17. Get enough rest.

18. Eat right.

19. Get organized so everything has its place.

20. Listen to a tape while driving that can help improve your quality of life.

21. Write down thoughts and inspirations.

22. Every day, find time to be alone.

23. Having problems? Talk to God on the spot. Try to nip small problems in the bud. Don't wait until it's time to go to bed to try and pray.

24. Make friends with Godly people.

25. Keep a folder of favorite scriptures on hand.

26. Remember that the shortest bridge between despair and hope is often a good "Thank you Jesus."

27. Laugh.

28. Laugh some more!

29. Take your work seriously, but not yourself at all.

30. Develop a forgiving attitude (most people are doing the best they can).

31. Be kind to unkind people (they probably need it the most).

32. Sit on your ego.

33. Talk less; listen more.

34. Slow down.

35. Remind yourself that you are not the general manager of the universe.

36 . Every night before bed, think of one thing you're grateful for that you've never been grateful for before.

GOD HAS A WAY OF TURNING THINGS AROUND FOR YOU. "If God is for us, who can be against us?" (Romans 8:31)